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Transform worry and anxiety into healthy concern

Worry rehearses futures that we can’t control. –from a homily by Fr. Mike Schmitz Note: Concern moves us to take the next right step, whereas worry and anxiety simply dwell on the negative “what-ifs” to fuel more anxiety. Question: How can you transform worry and anxiety into healthy concern to maintain peace and seek the

Active Listening, Observing for Awareness

Learn to sit back and observe; not everything deserves a response. Sometimes the most powerful response is no response at all – just awareness. —Roy T Bennett. Note: Active listening gives you the opportunity to patiently seek understanding of what the other person is saying, without being distracted by your own thoughts and beliefs. Question:

Love, Patience, Yes to Life

He who does not love life has no patience with it. —-Ramano Guardini Note: Guardini explaines that true patience requires the strength to accept reality, grow slowly, and trust the natural, imperfect turns of existence. Question: Rather than resisting, being angry, or blaming, how can we accept the present moment as we patiently and faithfully

Emotions and Actions

You are not your emotions. Feel the emotion, acknowledge it, but don’t become it. —-From a talk by Jay Scherr Note: Emotions are physical reactions (like a racing heart) that our thoughts transform to feelings. We can interrupt the loop before our mind is activated to look for reasons to support negative feelings. We become

Be like water

Flow like water around obstacles; keep your course. —Adapted from Bruce Lee’s speech. Note: Be flexible and creative as you face life’s obstacles, taking steps that align with your intention, free of attachment. Allow patience and perseverance to guide your actions along a peaceful path. Question: How can you remain present, peaceful, and persistent on

It’s Not About Us – Resilience

May I not be elated by praise, may I not be offended by insult. —-Centering affirmation Note: When we learn that praise or insult is only a reflection of the other person’s opinion, we are free to accept what is helpful and disregard the rest. Thus we become the witness and validate the other person’s

Sustaining your wellbeing during challenges

A great skill you can develop is the ability to stay in a good mood even when a sudden challenge is nothing to feel good about. —Adapted Note: Consider moving through the initial despair and channeling your energy to tap into your inner strength and faith, treating this as another test to strengthen your acceptance